The Lord’s Prayer

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“This is how you are to pray:

‘Our Father who art in heaven,
hallowed be thy name,
thy Kingdom come,
thy will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
and forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and do not let us fall into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.’

I love praying the Lord’s Prayer. Biblical scholars agree that the ‘Our Father’ are the very words (ipsissima verba) of Jesus himself. They reflect the mind and heart of Christ. I get to see a glimpse of the person that Jesus Christ is. And what do I see?

I see the one-ness of all life and creation. Everything that is alive and everything that exists come from one source – the Lord and the Giver of Life. Everything in heaven and on earth has been willed by him into existence. By His Word, we were designed, done and delivered into life. And yet this creative force is not some inanimate principle that operates automatically. This force is a person who exists for love. The very act of creation is an expression of that love. He cares for each and everyone of us. He is not some distant power not really caring for us; but someone who cares deeply and infinitely for us moment by moment. In fact, he is very much like . . . . Our Father.

I also see and experience his oneness of the cosmos and the interconnectedness of this grand creation that is the universe in my daily ordinary existence. I rely on the fruits of the earth for my daily bread. These have been designed, done and delivered by the many  people who make it possible for me to have food on my table. I do my share in sustaining this life we share in anyway I can. And the others I share this earth with; we live together, we laugh and we love one another. There are times we fight and have disagreements. I pray for forgiveness even as I am ready to give it to those who have offended me. For always, there are temptations and there is the evil one who would frustrate the divine will for us to love one another.

I imagine all these words and all the thoughts coming from Christ and I am awed by the gentle greatness and indeed the divinity of his person, summing up in these few words the awesome adventure we all share that we call life, existence, creation.

The Lord’s Prayer has always been my favorite prayer. I try to pray it at least once a day.  When sleep is hard to come by, I recite it instead of counting sheep. When I am angry, I pray it instead of counting up to 10. When caught in traffic, I say it instead of automatically reaching for my cell phone as I often do.When I am happy I pray it in gratitude. When I am sad, I pray it for strength and comfort.

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Let the Children Teach Us

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I love children and there are times I’d rather be with them than with adults.
I love how they look and see life and the world
with eyes of unending wonder and amazement.
They teach me everything I need to know about relationships:
totally accepting of everyone,
putting in no conditions,
bias-and-prejudice-free,
not afraid to get hurt
and color-blind – including the color of money.
They are factory fresh and redolent of the smell and feel of their source.

I also think of all the children robbed of their childhood by illness, poverty and neglect.
Neither can I understand or accept the outright killing of the unborn through abortion.
How can we participate in God’s work of bringing beauty and innocence into the world
and then wantonly abandon it like it were thrash?
Children often teach us bigger and deeper lessons than anything we can ever hope to teach them.

The ‘lessons’ of life, which include fears, disappointments, frustrations and even betrayals, would later make them forget what life is all about and where they came from.

I find that rather sad.

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Being a Christian Today

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The ‘tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye’ law in the Old Testament was not really about revenge. It was but meant to moderate the exacting of vengeance when one is seeking redress for an injustice. The punishment should fit the crime, not exceed it.

And yet, Christ would turn even that upside down and he challenges us to forgive instead of seeking redress or recompense. His challenge: “For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers and sisters, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same?”

So counter-cultural. So counter-intuitive. Such a contrarian paradox. So very Christ. His clarion call, “So be perfect, just as your heavenly Father is perfect.”

A Call to great generosity.
A Call to unconditional love.
A Call to be a Christian in today’s secular world.

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Mysteries Of Life

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The world we live in is a simple yet mysterious place.

The essence of parallel lines is that they will never meet.
Yet a vanishing point, where mutually parallel lines in three-dimensional space
appear to converge, is a recognized physical phenomenon.
A grain of sand does not a beach make and yet we can see in it the universe.
Everyone one knows that what goes up must come down.

In the spiritual realm, He who descended from heaven to become man
must ascend back to the Father.
A man does not humanity make
and yet each person contains all that humanity is
and hopes to be.

My head keeps on searching for answers
yet my heart forever poses endless questions.

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The Family And The Trinity

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Natural Bridges State Park, Santa Cruz CA

Today is the third Sunday in June,
the day the world celebrates as Fathers’ Day.
Digital media is awash with greetings and paeans to oft forgotten fathers.
As a father, I have always seen my role as a father
is to give my sons roots and wings.
We hold children’s hands for a while
Then they grow wings in the blink of an eye
And before we realize, away they fly.
Here’s to fathers who have given their children strong roots
– in values, character, goodness, and integrity –
and strong wings
– to follow their dreams and to strike out on their own.

Today is also the first Sunday after Pentecost.
It is the Feast of the Holy Trinity,
a community of life and love.
Much like the community of life and love
that the family is.
The Holy Trinity is the deepest mystery of the Christian Faith.
Trying to understand it is like
trying to pour the entire ocean into a child’s bucket.
Yet, I see the Trinity in the Family.
And the family as a community of life and love,
I have lived out and understood.
No mystery there.
Just Life and Love.

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The Love That Impels

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Hellyer County Park, San Jose CA

I have always loved this quote from Blaise Pascal:
The heart has its reasons, of which reason knows nothing”.
Or, one can let it play trippingly on one’s tongue in French:
“Le cœur a ses raisons que la raison ne connaît pas.”

There can never be a mathematical formula for love.
Much less a financial accounting for it.
Raising a family does not make financial sense.
Giving without expecting anything in return will mean bankruptcy in business.

And yet, therein lies the magic and the mystery,
the power and promise of love.
Small acts can lead to great things.
A touch, a hug, a kiss, a caress can change lives
more effectively than money or power.
Just being constantly present can make more difference
than exerting one great heroic effort.
After a lifetime of trying to make a difference in the big world,
to exert heroic efforts to change lives and touch people,
I am now quietly and humbly doing small things
for just a handful of people,
for those I have helped bring into this world,
for those who have touched and changed my life,
for those whose lives I have touched and somehow changed.

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Love Without Limits Nor Conditions

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A Waterfall in a Glade within a Glen somewhere in Mount Tamalpais

Love, like a spring, is life giving.
Love, like water, refreshes and rejuvenates.

I love it when I can tell someone that I will make time for him or her.
It is an act of the will, a choice, to give my time and myself to another person.
I also realize that I say those words only to people I truly love and care for.
If, by chance, I say them to a person I barely know,
I also realize that somehow there is still some love and caring involved.

It is easy to love someone I like.
But that is putting borders and limits to love.
The real challenge is to love without limits and without borders.
The true essence of love is to love with conditions.
It is infinite like its source.

Not even time can limit love.
And yet, I love in time.
As I grow older, I realize how precious time is.
In my younger years, I had a lot of time. I squandered a lot of it.
Now, even the times I have nothing to do are precious.
Time to be here.
Time to be present.
Time is a present, a gift.
Precious. Moments.
Sacred moments.

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Love Is the Only Real Choice

To pledge their love to each other for eternity

Love soft as an easy chair
Love fresh as the morning air

Love is the only real choice in our world gone mad
and irrational over fortune, power and fame.
There are three kinds of loves:
love of God, love of neighbor and love of self.

He who does not love God is without any stable grounding
in this imperfect and ever changing world.
And he who loves only God is an intolerant and intolerable bigot.

The neighbor includes all the others in my life
and also the environment and nature that sustain us.
He who does not love the neighbor is a pitiable and insufferable loner.
He who loves only the neighbor is a misguided and naive do-gooder.

He who does not love self has nothing of value to offer
beyond the material and financial.
He who loves only self is a selfish and egotistic person.

It may be easy to say I love God whom I do not see.
It may even be easier to fall in love with one self.
It takes grace, effort and great generosity to love the neighbor.

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Independence and Freedom of Choice

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Today is Philippine Independence Day.
I did not ask to be born Filipino but am grateful to be one.
In spite of what the country is going through at the moment,
I am proud of the achievements of our nation
and of individual Filipinos on the world stage.
While I am sad that we seem to be forever stuck in mediocrity as a nation;
I love how we are known for our hospitality and welcoming nature;
I love how we excel in service professions and in the field of entertainment;
I love how we are so family-centered and -oriented,
sacrificing anything and everything just for them.
Yes, I love being a Filipino.

Neither did I ask to be born a Christian
but I have always felt led into the paths of love preached by Christ.
I am inspired by what I have learned as a Catholic.
While I am sad that we have yet to flower fully as a Christian nation;
I love out steadfast devotion to the Christian faith;
I love how the Christian message permeates much of our communal lives;
I love the generosity of spirit that Christianity has engendered in the Filipino soul.
Yes, I love being a Filipino Christian.

Neither did I ask to be born in my family of origin
but am grateful for the home that Ima and Tatang raised us up in.
It was there I learned about caring and sharing.
We did not have much growing up I never felt in want for anything while growing up.
I love reminiscing our family meals;
I love remembering the games I played with my brothers and sisters.
I love going back to those years when faced with adversity as an adult.
Yes, I love growing up and being a Quiazon.

I hope I am able to do as much and even more for
my country,
my faith community,
my family.

Aside from these given,
I do have a choice in everything else I do.

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Did He Really Mean What He Said?

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Sagrado Corazon del Cristo Rey, Mexico City

 

 

 

‘You are the light of the world.
A city built on a hill-top cannot be hidden.
No one lights a lamp to put it under a tub; they put it on the lamp-stand
where it shines for everyone in the house.
In the same way your light must shine
in the sight of men, so that,
seeing your good works,
they may give the praise
to your Father in heaven.’

 

 

 

 

Demagogues and spin-masters (read, ‘marketers’ and ‘PR practitioners’)
tell people want they want to hear to get their attention and commitment.
There are times I wonder whether Christ was playing this kind of game,
specially when he preached the Beatitudes.
These are what poor and oppressed people would dearly love to hear.
Was Christ being a like a demagogue or a spin-master
promising just to take away all sources of poverty and oppression?
As if by magic?

On the contrary (counter-culturally, counter-intuitively, paradoxically),
he asked his disciples to take up and face squarely the cross
and in such a ‘sacrifice’ come the beatitudes he preached on the hill.
The fool on the hill. Preaching from it. Crucified on top of it.

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