The 10,000 Rule

Practice makes perfect. But to really excel in what one is doing, there is the 10,000 rule. In his book, Outliers: The Story of Success, Malcolm Gladwell puts forward the notion that the key to success is to practice a specific task for a total of 10,000 hours. This translates to at least ten years of preparation, practice and discipline. It involves countless hours of working alone, being by one’s self, sacrificing instant pleasure and gratification for some future goal. It takes strength of character, humility, perseverance and fortitude to achieve. Think ‘desert experience’. Imagine a monk, deep in meditation – alone, ascetic, apart and away from the hustle and bustle.

This then makes sense to me: to be strong in mind and body, I must subject my mind and body to deprivation and discipline. To be great, I must start at the bottom with humility. To excel, I must first acknowledge my weaknesses and work to overcome them. It does not matter what human endeavor I am in. These rules still apply.

Where did Christ get all of this wisdom? He had his own experience of the 10,000 rule. For the first thirty years of his life, he toiled in anonymity and humility in the hamlet of Nazareth, hidden and unrecognized. He must have spent hours in prayer and meditation. Even more hours in studying the Word of God. And more hours learning the craft of carpentry from Joseph and the the art of living from Mary. Then when it was time and at the proper moment, he came upon the scene and people were awed at his wisdom and at his marvelous deeds.

“The greatest among you will be your servant. All who exalt themselves will be humbled, and all who humble themselves will be exalted.”
Matthew 23:1-12

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“For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.” (Third Law of Motion)
“What goes around, comes around.” (Law of Karma)
“The measure you give will be the measure you get back.” (Jesus Christ)

Physics, Eastern Mysticism and Christian Spirituality: three ways of looking at life, sometimes seemingly contradictory and even incompatible, yet coming to essentially the same conclusion. Life is meant for the giving. And it is in giving that we receive; in pardoning that we pardoned; and in dying that we are born to eternal life.

In the hustle and bustle of daily living, I often get caught up by so many things that I forget or overlook these truths. There are times I get so caught up with myself, I become selfish and greedy. I get so overwhelmed by the many events in my life, I get angry or give way to laziness or gluttony. I seek the thrill of the moment and I give in to self-centered pleasures.

I need moments of quiet reflection and prayer to bring me back to my senses, to the people who make my life worth living, to my roots that give sustenance to my being. In prayer, in the presence of God, everything comes together.

Jesus said to the disciples,
“Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.
Do not judge, and you will not be judged;
do not condemn, and you will not be condemned.
Forgive, and you will be forgiven;
give, and it will be given to you.
A good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap;
for the measure you give will be the measure you get back.”

Luke 6:36-38

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EDSA – The Transfiguration of the Philippines

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This is a photo of the Ortigas Center taken from the hills of Antipolo. Typically enveloped in smog, it always looks like on a clear day you can see the outlines of buildings. This is the general area where 27 years ago, the Philippines and we Filipinos experienced our own Transfiguration. This was the place where the tanks of the Philippine Marines were stopped cold in their tracks by throngs of people armed with flowers and rosaries.

It was a weekend. The drama started unfolding late Saturday afternoon, February 22. I remember the gospel reading for that Sunday was also the Transfiguration, as we attended an early Sunday mass in front of Gate 4 of Camp Aguinaldo. And in the next three days, our own Triduum, we were part of a moving and inspiring Transfiguration experience.

Factionalism and regionalism, of which we have more than our fair share, melted away as  we all came together as one people. People came together as family and new-found friends, bound together by a common cause. Scarcity mentality, which we all suffer from due to the many deprivations we have experienced throughout our lives, gave way to an abundance and sharing mentality. No one ever went hungry during those days. Anabelle and I helped man the food station at Gate 4 and food just kept on coming and flowing. It was a time of reconciliations and forgiveness. We were both at the main gate of the two camps when the forces of Enrile and Ramos joined up together. We were there when Enrile confessed his fake ambush, which was used to justify martial law. The people forgave him, even applauding his confession. No one was lusting for power, wealth or fame on EDSA then. There was only love, sharing and forgiveness. Indeed, it was a foretaste of heaven on our piece of earth.

Those days of euphoria vanished sooner than we could get our act together. For a while, there were those who were saying they missed the halcyon days of the martial law regime. Today, we are still struggling to see our ‘new city’ through the haze of the pollution we have surrounded ourselves with. Just as Christ’s own Passover still had to happen after his Transfiguration and before the glory of his resurrection, so must we as a people still have to pass over from our own darkness into the light, from our selfishness and greed into lasting love and sharing, from our inequities into justification. Rome was not built in one day. So, we may take a few generations to complete the journey.

Like Peter, my heart is full of faith and trust: “It is good for us to be here.” I am starting to see the crimson of dawn over our horizon, the dim light at the end of our tunnel and the faint sweet scent of a new morning about to come upon us. I see these in the youth who are again imbued with an idealism and love of country I so dearly cherished during my own youth. I see the sacrifice and perseverance of our millions of OFWs toiling to give their families a better future. I see in in the many local leaders who are doing for their communities what the national government must bu cannot or will not provide. As always, I see it in the endearing smiles and resonant laughter of a people that has been blessed with a deep and trusting faith as of one who knows it has been chosen.

May the spirit and promise of EDSA finally rise to be fulfilled! Amen.

Jesus took Peter, John, and James and went up the mountain to pray.
While he was praying his face changed in appearance
and his clothing became dazzling white.
And behold, two men were conversing with him, Moses and Elijah,
who appeared in glory and spoke of his exodus
that he was going to accomplish in Jerusalem.
Luke 9:28:36

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Loving The Unlovable?

Every life is precious. Every life is beautiful. But life is not all joy and happiness. There are moments of sorrow and pain. God placed a little bit of himself in each and everyone of his creatures. There is so much of God to know that we each express a different facet of this infinite and loving Creator. A diamond is but a lump of carbon until the jeweler cuts it up and reveals the lustrous facets that make it sparkle and shine. The cuts are not smooth. The sharper they are, the more brilliant the diamond.

So it is with every life. Each person has a precious diamond deep inside. Living life is like cutting up a lump of carbon to free the diamond inside. Each life is an unfolding story, unique and beautiful and never again to be repeated. Christ came to reveal to us this truth, which we could not have learned just entirely on our own. He tells us to love even our enemies because even they have precious story to tell. They too reveal to the rest of the world another facet of this infinite and loving God.

This teaching is very hard to accept and many have turned away from Jesus because they found his teaching impractical, not functional and counter-productive. But if I believe that each person and each life is a unique and precious gift from God, that is all the reason I need to love.

Jesus said to the crowds, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven; for he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the righteous and on the unrighteous. For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers and sisters, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same?” Matthew 5:43-47

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The Human Face of God

In writing down my reflections, I often refer to God as the Presence, the Source. I am often hesitant to name Jesus Christ, probably too keenly aware of the strong secular milieu I am in that is not too welcoming of him. That is the reason why God seems to be a distant, remote and vague presence in my life. In Jesus, I see the human face of God. God is not an impersonal objective force, like some cold and alienating principles or natural laws. He is a person who is constantly present and actively involved in my daily life.

Jesus has taught us of our real Source, the Father. Jesus assured us of his abiding Presence through the Spirit. This triune God is the model of human existence – communities founded in Love. If I make this the foundation of my Faith, then my faith shall be rock solid.

He said to them, “But who do you say that I am?” Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” And Jesus answered him, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah! For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father in heaven. Matthew 16: 13-19

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Seek And You Shall Find

In prayer, I knock on God’s door to help me in seeking for what is his will for me to do and then I ask him to the grace, strength and courage to do it. This is not the way of the world. In a world that is increasingly secular, driven by technology and business, prayer would seem anachronistic. What people look for today are utility, productivity and cost-effectiveness. For something to be valuable and worthwhile, it must serve a function, produce a physical product or a tangible service and yield a net gain or profit. Prayer has no acceptable utility in today’s milieu; it produces no tangible product and it yields no monetary gain nor profit.

In the bigger scheme of the universe, our earth has no utility for the universe would still exist even if it were to miss one pale dot in some corner of a remote galaxy. Or, are we indeed so totally without meaning in the great scheme of things? The earth is not productive like the sun emitting light and energy endlessly to its surroundings, populated by ant-like creatures building human colonies. Or, are we building something inspired by someone greater than the sun and the entire universe? There is absolutely no monetary value to the earth when seen in the context of all the stars and the planet. If there were, we would probably be worth a few pennies. Or, are we perhaps the most precious beings in all of creation? These are some of the questions I ponder in prayer that I ask answers for; that I seek to relate to my everyday life; that I come knocking and begging for answers.

And here is my assurance:

Jesus said to the crowds, “Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened. Matthew 7:7-11

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Changes and Signposts

Christ’s call to repentance is a call to change. And all life is about change. I can simply allow changes to happen in my life. Or, I can choose the changes I want to see happen in my life. I have decided to choose what changes to make in my life and I have chosen to change for the better. It is a lifelong struggle that has to be renewed consciously everyday. And Christ has been my constant companion in this journey of change, providing me with signposts along the way to guide me.

Every dawning of the new day is a sign that I have been given another chance to make a go at changing for the better. The passing of the seasons is a sign that things will all eventually work out for the better, just as certainly as spring follows winter. People in my life are a sign of affirmation that I have made the right choice in deciding to follow Jesus. The people I have loved have all made me change for the better, sometimes painfully, often joyfully. The events in my life are directional signs telling me to go slow or move faster or go back or make a turn or move ahead. I am myself a sign to fellow travelers in this journey of changing for the better as part of a community moving forward to our Source.

When the crowds were increasing, Jesus began to say, “This generation is an evil generation; it asks for a sign, but no sign will be given to it except the sign of Jonah. For just as Jonah became a sign to the people of Nineveh, so the Son of Man will be to this generation. Luke 11:29-32

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Forgiveness

I see myself as a forgiving person, easily forgetting the wrongs that have been done to me by others. Given time, I can even be friends again even with people who have hurt me very deeply. But I am also a very imaginative person with a rather retentive memory. There are times when I can’t help myself but relive some of the hurts inflicted on me by others. And I can literally feel all that vile and vitriol welling up again within me. And old wounds open up and the pain all comes back. From such experiences, I get to understand how such repressed feelings can indeed lead to some forms of cancer or other psychosomatic illnesses. I also begin to understand why the act of forgiveness is a Christian virtue, the necessary companion of love.

I see my self as a sensitive person, usually aware of the feelings and hurts in other people. But there are times, I can be so dense and insensitive that I am not aware that I have already caused hurt and pain in others. I would know subsequently through others or through later reflection that I have wronged another person. And the worse thing is that pride would come in and asking for forgiveness becomes very difficult for me. From such experiences, I get to understand how people would think of me as a mean and uncaring person. I also begin to understand why humility is a Christian virtue, also a necessary companion to love.

I pray for courage and strength to forgive others, including myself, for the wrongs I have done. I pray for humility to be able to ask for forgiveness from those I have wronged.

“For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” Matthew 6:7-15

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Life Is Better Lived In The Active Voice

Being good is not easy. Keeping the ten commandments is difficult. I have often transgressed many times and usually the same ones every time. But the ten commandments are but the bare minimum to a just and upright life. When I will finally stand before God to be judged, he will not ask how I have observed them: did I keep the Lord’s day holy? did I honor my father and mother? did I steal? did I lie? did I do harm to others? did I commit adultery? did I desire that which belonged to others?

No. Instead God will ask how I have loved, what I did to and for others: did I feed the hungry? did I clothe the naked? did I welcome the stranger and the homeless? Knowing this makes living for me more meaningful. Life is not passively avoiding traps and pitfalls. Life as about actively doing good and loving others.

And the king will answer them, ‘Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me.’
Then he will answer them, ‘Truly I tell you, just as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to me.’ And these will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal life”  Matthew 25:31-46

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To Be Tempted is To Be Human

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God was proud of his servant Job for he was a just and upright man, praising and thanking God every moment of his life. The devil said that was because God showered Job with all good things and countless blessings. He dared God that if the blessings were taken away, Job would no sooner start cursing God. So God allowed the devil to tempt Job and the devil inflicted all kinds of misery on Job but was not able to break him. Job remained steadfast in his love and devotion to his Lord.

Temptation is not yet a sin but giving in to it is. Temptations are part of our being human because we always have the capacity to choose good over evil, to go towards the light or seek the darkness, to be an instrument of life and liberty or an agent of death and destruction. The devil is a master of lies and his wiles are full of deceit. He will make us see the red delicious apple and forget our promise to be faithful to God.

When I was young, being good meant following a series of “Don’t do this” and “Don’t do that”. The devil in his wiles also has his own “Don’ts” ~ Like, “Don’t try to be good. It is so hard. It is a lot easier to just be flaky and take it easy.” Or, “Don’t care for other people. They will take you for a patsy and just take advantage of you.” Or, “Don’t tell the truth. Deal in lies. Truth carries with it so much responsibility. You can save yourself a lot of aggravations.” And there are moments I have succumbed to the wiles of the devil.  And some of them are not even very subtle.

Christ upheld the Law (the passive Don’ts of the Ten Commandments) but summarized them in one active Do – Love! Love God above all else and your neighbor as yourself. The three Lenten Practices of prayer, alms-giving and  fasting,remind me and help me deepen my practice of love. Prayer helps me strengthen my love for and relationship with God. Alms-giving reminds me to be mindful of others. Fasting is disciplining my flesh to give room for my spirit to grow.

Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan and was led by the Spirit in the wilderness, where for forty days he was tempted by the devil. He ate nothing at all during those days, and when they were over, he was famished. Luke 4:1-13

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