I grew up in an environment and around people who took parenting seriously. I know of fathers, who would slave it out, sometimes in boring jobs or back-braking work, to be able to provide for their family. I know of mothers who would make unbelievable sacrifices like staying up all night for a sick child or giving up personal comforts for the sake of their children. Such boundless generosity is the hallmark of unconditional love. For giving without love is very difficult; but with love, giving is always a joy.
For many, Christ’s call to give more than what is asked for is a stumbling block. For who would want to turn the other cheek when one already feels so insulted and offended have been struck on the right cheek? Or, who would give even his cloak if he has already given his coat, specially in a world grown cold through selfishness and indifference? But then, don’t many companies today teach their employees about going the extra mile to delight their customers? There are more and more people doing serious philanthropy and there are banks willing to lend even to credit unworthy but needy borrowers.
A generous spirit will solve many of the world’s ills. Such a spirit is born and nurtured only in an environment of love. I will always choose to be a loving person so that I can give without counting the cost.
Jesus said to the crowds, “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, Do not resist an evildoer. But if anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also; and if anyone wants to sue you and take your coat, give your cloak as well; and if anyone forces you to go one mile, go also the second mile. Give to everyone who begs from you, and do not refuse anyone who wants to borrow from you.”
Matthew 5:38-42